Men are usually the ones who complain about their woman getting clingy, but what happens when the tables get reversed? Needy and clingy guys don’t come every day, but when they do come along, they usually find a girl who loves her own independence.
Here’s a confession about my own stint as a needy and clingy guy, when that was the last thing I actually wanted to be. I believe in space in love, and I truly understand why a couple needs to stay away from each other now and then.
I drove her back home, exchanged numbers on the way, and she loved my songs playlist. I was not going to speak to my girlfriend for 48 hours. [Read: 15 subtle signs of an emotionally controlling boyfriend] She’s on my mind. I woke up in the morning and stretched out to a morning hard boy. When we’re told to avoid something, that’s the one thing we really want.
Now, that’s chemistry for dummies, don’t you think?
Texting and dating definitely isn’t just for 20 year olds anymore. “Melissa” stayed up until 3 AM texting with her dude. She wants to know how to stop obsessing over him being The One.Sure, he wouldn’t be spending any time if he wasn’t attracted to you, but if he’s solely texting, he doesn’t think of you as a potential partner. You know what you need to know: he isn’t a good, grownup man worth your time. A text ‘relationship’ is simply like being a player in a game.Expecting him to move on to something more serious isn’t realistic. There are so many ways to know if a man is a serious guy who is interested in getting to know you. It’s a type of false connection that sets up incredibly unrealistic assumptions and expectations.I’ve been dating a very special girl for the past few months. We met at a conference, and we hit it off almost immediately. I fell asleep and our love story wove in and out of my dreams that night.